Looking For Love, Romance and Loving Relationships A lot of people are talking about love - or lack of it, it seems.
I read recently that there's more than 80 million singles in the United States alone. That's a lot of people looking for love.

You may be a single person yourself, or have someone close to you who is. Or maybe you're wishing for a more loving relationship. But I think looking for love often goes past romantic relationships, and gently imposes on relationships in general - personal ones at least. At any rate, it seems there's lots and lots and LOTS of people who are looking for love from any number of sources.

So what can people looking for love do to find it? Let's consider the Law Of Attraction. Ever noticed that when you walk down the street with a smile on your face, you get lots of smiles in return? And if you show up at work with a grimace, people tend to avoid you? That's the Law of Attraction in action. The LOA simply states that whatever you put out into the universe will return.

If you smile, you'll attract smilers. If you are compassionate, you'll attraction compassion. If you love yourself, and enjoy who you are and what you do, you'll attract people who enjoy you as well. See the love connection? GOOD! Now use these Attraction Principles to help you attract more love into your life.

1. Take care of yourself. If you put yourself at the bottom of your own priority list, why are you amazed when other people do too?

2. Plan for tomorrow, but LIVE for today. If you're stuck in the past, or too hung up on the future, you'll totally miss whatever you're attracting right now.

3. Build a reserve in all areas of your life. In order to attract more of what you want, you'll need to have enough to give some with no cost to you. If you want people to give you their time, you'll need to be willing to share yours too.

4. Be the best that you can be in all phases of your life - your career, your roles, your responsibilities. Raise the bar on what you expect of yourself. If you want the best, you'll need to be the best that you can be.

5. Get a fulfilling life, not just a lifestyle. Nobody is attracted to someone who's unhappy with the life they lead, no matter how 'fancy' it may seem. If you find your life purposeful and meaningful, no matter how simple, it will attract automatically.

6. Eliminate delay. Delaying on promises, on ideas, on intentions is not attractive. Procrastination is not attractive. Results are attractive. 7. Set up your life to support success. When the people, space, and circumstances around you are working the way you want them to, it's easy to attract more of what you want.

Make room for success. Make room for Love.

Professional Life Coach Kathy Gates helps people who are stuck in old habits and behaviors to set new priorities and goals, make changes, take action, and reshape their lifes. For more information, visit Professional Life Coach .